Was it love

I wont to talk about the word LOVE ….

 as i speak to people looking back on there lives .. they tell me story’s of the Loves they had and held strong in there hearts even to this day ….

 they will say things like .. oh ive been in love twice in my life or some more and some less … but im questioning if what they had was really LOVE …

the actual notion of falling in love is when you find an emotional connection .or spiritual connection or even sexual connection between 2 people …. 

we look back with fond memories of those loves …BUT there gone there no longer there or existing …. and usually one person becomes shocked at the break up … one person was still in love within the couple  years later they look back on that relationship and speak of it as one of there biggest LOVES in there life … but it appears the other half of the couple didnt seem to love you back   well not in the end anyway …..

Can LOVE  and i mean real LOVE  be one sided . i mean how can you look back and say he was the love of my life  when in reality he didnt love you back ….or that you both are no longer together

are we able to LOve people who dont LOVE us back and still claim it as love  with all the emotions and feelings that go along with love …

surly to be LOVED and to LOVE you need 2 people to in fact pull it off ….

WHAT IS LOVE

is it just a word we can go around saying ….(yes i love everyone) even if they dont love you back … so can it be called a one sided LOVE and does it carry with it the same deep feelings of connection with another human being if they dont love you back

i use to think i was in love and twice in my life in fact ..both men i had long term relationships with . but in the end they turned abusive and it wasnt love they were giving me in the first place … they had motives the whole time … while i was giving them my 100% devotion and for me it was LOVE .. but it was all a joke the didnt love me back ..not the way REAL LOVE is ment to be anyway ..de we put up with abuse and feel comfort knowing they loved you half way and that was it ….

is there possibly different strengths of love ….ans still it takes two people to make it love ….

sure i can go around faking it and make myself feel big by saying …YES I LOVE EVERYONE ..what bullshit …. you dont love strangers .. you dont love people you dont know …. face it … if  you both were held at gun point and one had to die … youd sure as hell pick the stranger to go not yourself …… but if you really love someone ie .. your children  your partner and faced with the same choice …. you would raise your hand in an instant to die to save them … WOULDNT YOU ?

ISNT THAT WHAT THE ULTIMATE MEANING OF LOVE IS … ITS ALL ABOUT THE SACRAFICE.. CHOOSE WISLEY WHO YOU GIVE IT TOO