LOVE …. is it really that great

LOVE …. is it really that great

a friend recently ask a group of us … Love sex .lust romance … its all the same .. we should all just have sex and be donw with it ….. wow it  then set of  a big heated argument about sex not being just sex becasue our emotions get involed and then how peole play mind games and then it turns to shit and gets us all messed up in the heads and destroys us … the views went back and forth for hours … even i put my 2 cents worth in … saying well lets all just have sex … but no a few werent happy with that response either ….

so i got to thinking about love …do we need it to be satisfyed in life ….

i narrowed it down to these few

my children love me and it gives me 100% satisfaction

my family love me and that too gives me 100% satisfaction

my friends love me and even that gives me 100% satisfaction

so the kind of love you get from a husband /lover/partner is in a way a SEXUAL type of love … becaus elets face it no sex no relashionship ..so a relashionship is primary based on being sexual beings with each other

but this is the kind of love that does become dangerous … it can be violent .. or just manipulating .. the jelousy game is played

and can be one of the most damageing relashionships we have in our lives …

so then if all those other kinds of LOVE are abale to keep us feeling safe .happy satisfyed in life .. then

why CANT . men and women have a soley life with each other with just sex …… why cant male and female oops male and male or female to female love  just be about SEX and nothing more

surley that would put an end to mind games and jelousy and manipulation …….

you met someone your sexualy attracted to and have sex //nothing more .. nothing less you dont need to becasue the Love you get from the world around you satisfyes you 100% and there is no need for the kind of sexual LOVE a partner brings you …

am i  making sence …. did i explain it right …….

out of all the kindS and types of love .SEXUAL LOVE REALLY SUX